Ever get stuck for something to talk about at the dinner table? Sometimes we get in a rut, asking the same questions of our children or grandchildren. Try this out—a Chat Jar. Chat Jars are essentially tiny ice breakers for your family or friends. These ice breakers are in the form of simple questions like…“What is something you like about yourself?” or “Would you rather skate on ice cream or sled in mud?” The best ice breakers are those that allow someone or a group of people to interact without pressure. There are no wrong answers, only answers that are true to the person answering. As you can see, the first question might cause a pause from the person answering, but given a safe space and time, a heartfelt answer can be voiced. By mixing up the silly, serious, and thought–provoking questions, relationships strengthen, and conversation skills can be practiced. Stretch answers by asking “Why did you say that?” These chat times are bound to create some sparks, giggles, and thoughtful conversations. Begin a new routine at home or away—pick a strip every day. The Chat Jar will quickly become a way to touch base and check in with those around you. As you get into the groove of picking conversation starters out, see if you can add more yourself.
CLICK HERE TO download the Chat Jar Ideas. Print then cut the question strips to fill Simple questions to bring your family together your container. Part of the fun is creating your own jar or box. You will have plenty to keep you going for months. By then I am sure you will be making up your own questions!
Here are a few to get you started!
- What is the best website or app?
- Describe yourself in two words.
- What is the best gift you have ever been given?
- Would you rather never brush your teeth or your hair?
- What is your favorite holiday? Why?
- If you could go anywhere, where would you go? Who would you take?
- What book should I read?
Remember, all answers have value. As Cassie Whitfield notices, “The Chat Jar prompts made us laugh and really boosted the conversations! Have fun, connect, and let us know at (585) Kids how it’s changed your dinner or family time.